Sexuality

  • Sexuality

    My work as a counsellor, focussing on sexuality, covers a wide range of ground including rape, sexual abuse, sex addiction, fantasy, objectification, frigidity, sexual anorexia, celibacy, celibacy contracts, premature ejaculation, erectile dysfunction and masturbation.

    Typically you would come to me with an issue and we would work together to move through the subject over a period of weeks. I frequently use meditation and posture in the work with sexuality as I find that certain practices that profoundly change the physical experiences of the body. But I can equally engage in talking only.

    A celibacy contract is a generic name for an agreement between us that can include a period of celibacy, but it can equally be a way to help you try new practices and experiences to help you move away from behaviours that are causing suffering to you or others. At this level, it may not include celibacy at all, but would typically include a list of agreed behavioural changes to be experienced within a set and signed for time frame. If a celibacy contract of some kind is involved I would be available by email on a weekly basis for an extended period of time, even if the one to one sessions were temporarily halted whist the contract was experienced.

    This way of working through sexual trauma and dysfunction has proved to be highly successful for many people over the last 15 years and I am typically working with around 10 people at a time on different versions of celibacy contracts.

    The sessions take place in the privacy of my house. I am completely discrete and have my own history that gives me the ability to hold a space that does not judge.

    I am happy to help you gain some clarity over the issues to be dealt with before commencing a series of sessions with you. This can be done either by telephone at an agreed time or via email.

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